Before starting career coaching and life coaching, my clients frequently ask: where is Yoda? How do I find Yoda? What they are really looking for is answers. Yet, as a result of our technological advances, people generally aren’t taking time to reflect and search for their own answers. Instead, addicted to instantaneous button clicking, our society breeds impatience, so we expect instant gratification and results, immediately, if not sooner, as my Dad used to say. What have we become? Let’s hear from a cyborg anthropologist what has happened in our current culture.
Join me for a closer pictorial look to see how our world has evolved and the impact it’s made on our lives.
From the first ride of the Pony Express:
To the assembly lines of the Industrial Age:
To the Information Age of computers, as we head into the Conceptual Age:
Dan Pink acknowledges that we have left the Industrial Age and entered a Conceptual Age. What if instead we are entering a dark age? The economy, the workplace, the political stage, your current state of mind all take its toll on your sense of self.
At the TED conference, Barry Schwartz discusses why too much choice is bad for us.
Too many choices cause:
1. Paralysis rather than liberation – people prefer to make no decision rather than make a complicated choice.
2. Less satisfaction with decisions as people have greater reason to regret the decisions they have made.
3. Unrealistic expectations.
4. Self-blame – when experiences are not perfect, people blame themselves.
So, what does this all mean? With more choices and advanced speed in communication, there are more resources available than ever before. The Internet has changed our world as we know it and this is the first time we have ever connected to each other in this way. From Linked In, to Facebook, to Twitter, our people connections are growing exponentially. Yet, with all of this external stimulation, there is little time to focus internally and reflect. More than we suspect, outside influences control our actions. Therefore, if you find yourself just reacting and riding the assembly line of life without pausing to figure out where you’re going, you will end up on the nowhere road and wonder how you got there. Even if you take a first step and start working with a career coach and life coach, it is too easy in our current age, to expect immediate answers and changes. It takes 28 to 30 days to change a habit, introduce a new routine, practice, or start to reframe your situation and it takes another couple months to make it stick. So, how can one expect to shift into the driver’s seat and get instant results? However, with career coaching and life coaching, you will be supported to help make these changes stick. So, what do you have to gain? Yes, it’s about finding the Yoda inside of you that may be foggy or unclear at the moment. Take the first step and get your life coaching and career coaching consultation from your success coach now.
Try a free coaching consultation with Wanda Ropa, your success coach, to get you started and get clear about where you’re going with your career, or with your life so you can develop a strategic plan that really works for you. With clarity, success becomes a natural outcome.
Posted by Wanda Ropa, The Success Coach.