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I’m Wendy Billie, Feroce's
Washington DC career coach. I have
significant experience as a
career and life coach,
working with people who are either seeking advice on
career transitions or ways to grow their current career.
In addition to coaching for Feroce, I currently coach
executives in-house at a Fortune 50 company. I
have also provided advice and career counseling to MBA
and undergraduate students at the University of
Minnesota.
A
“dream” career is not a myth
What if you chose the
career you always dreamed of doing before someone else
told you what you should pursue? Career coach
Wendy and a career coaching client we’ll call Tim
recently had a
breakthrough coaching discussion while reviewing the
work behavior assessment Wendy had administered.
In the conversation, Tim, a former football player,
discovered that his original career dream actually still
matched his behavioral preferences. The following
is a follow-up email that Wendy sent Tim from
Washington. It highlights some “a-ha’s” from the
coaching session and Tim’s “homework” to keep the
coaching real.
Dear Tim,
Here are a few of the "aha's"
that I want you to spend some time thinking about. Write
down other times (related to work, family, school, or
life in general) in which you have experienced the
things that I have bolded so we can t alk about it.
● Being on your own may be
an issue with your current work situation. Being
involved is important.
● You like a structured work
situation. Yet you have always seen yourself as a
free spirit.
● You work alone.
But,
you value the concept of teams and being in an
environment where others are present. You told me
the last work situation in which you felt satisfied was
when you held demonstrations and interacted with the
staff. This was out of your home office and in the
presence of others...hint hint. Plus, I bet you
were teaching others. And, in the next breath you
told me that you always saw yourself as being a football
coach. Hmm.
● You said that you make a
lot of money and live in a great neighborhood.
But, you also said many times that money was not
important to you. Your parent's said that sales
was a good fit for you. Why? Didn't you say
that maybe you were trying to show your parent's that
you could live a life not in debt? Is it possible
to live a life debt free without having significant
abundance of money? Tell me about a couple of times that
you have had a great time in your life without an
abundance of money.
Based on the work
behavioral assessment, some great career fits for your
work personality type according to research:
(coach/trainer, police officer, sports equipment sales,
child support/missing persons investigator, surgical
technician). Very cool! [Tim currently is in
medical device sales, but always wanted to be a coach].
These personality (work
behavioral) assessments are only sound if a person has
insight into who they are, so they are not absolute.
But, it is profound that what you always saw yourself
doing came out in the assessment. It is amazing
how life's demands and other people’s view of what we
should do (to make money) can cloud our personal
intuition.
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